We as humans, it is natural that enjoys beautiful things in this world. Is the nature of Allah Given to humans, that humans will tend to love the treasure, children, and husband or wife. Allah says in the Qur’an Surah Ali Imran: 14 that means :
“ Be beautiful on ( view) of human the love of what is desirable, namely : women, children, treasures that many of the types of gold, silver, horse choice, cattle, and paddy field. This is the pleasure of life in the world; Allah beside a fine return”.
Every human in this word will not be separated from the test. Any form of exam. Allah says in the Qur’an Surah Al Baqarah: 155 that means :
“And it will be given to you with a bit of dread ordeal, hunger, shortage, soul treasures and fruits. And give glad tidings to those who patiently”.
Although it has not got long descent married is one form of the test from Allah Ta’ala. However, most people thought that the ordeal only comes in the form of hardship. They do not realize that the abundant favors is also a test of Allah. So much that can go throught the trials and patient when getting trouble, but very few are able to go beyond the exam a pleasure world. It makes people neglect the pleasures of life while addressing them. Surah Al Anbiya verse 35, Allah Ta’ala says, that means:
“…….and indeed We will test you with evil and goodness as a trial. We will get back to you”.
Patience is the key in this issue, because the patient is one of the coming of Allah’s help. Allah says in the Qur’an Surah Al Baqarah: 153 that means :
“ O those who believe, ask for help ( to Allah ) with patient and prayer. Verily Allah is with those who patiently”.
Kind thought we should let the destiny Allah. And rest assured everything of Allah a silver lining.
We must be remember that the ink has dried destiny. Every human being has written about his fate before the creation of the sky and the earth. Sustenance we have set, human will not die before the quota provision that God has set out for him.
We must do ask forgiveness and repentance to Allah.
And if we have to pray and seek in many ways but has yet to gain, then the next step patien is always the destiny of God and be thankful all the blessing God. Alhamdulillah I was able to get married, when others are busy making money and busy looking for partner. Alhamdulillah kept out of sense of confusion level acute that many experienced youth of today. Alhamdulillah given husband that many give advice and supports what I do. Alhamdulillah me and my husband still given time to know each other ( given process fairly quickly towards marriage, just a few month ). Has not been given a descent, I am grateful, given quickly grateful, Insha Allah has not given too soon given ( Amin ). Alhamdulillah still have parents and complete in-laws. Alhamdulillah given sufficient sustenance. Wich God favors then you deny? ( Q.S Ar Rahman: 55 )
Only one word I can say “ Alhamdulillah ( All Praises to Allah ) “
Rest assured that Allah had chosen the best for us. Wallahu’alam.